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August 02 whythereisapigtrailontheceiling?lately i have been touching on the subject of relationship; so far, it doesn't bored me yet. so instead of going on blabbering about new topic, i will continue exploring the deep world of illogical correctness.
why couple get involve in a relationship? what make them decided to jumping on the wagon of argument, fight, financial irresponsibleness, and hours of gibberish talk? the answer is not universal (of courses,) as different person demand a different feedback from their partner. nonetheless, most of the time, many couple attribute this stupidness for getting involvement to the galaxy of excitement, fulfillment, and completement (i know it's not even a word). to take a stance, i personally believe that a partner within a relationship neither could fulfill nor complete each other. we are all merely a product of social's expectation to live among another. on the other hand, excitement is, arguably, serve as one of many proper reasons why people date each other. they want something new, something interesting, many things unpredictable and, even at times, aggressive. interestingly, excitement fade out over the time. the longer period people get involved with each other, the lesser their excitement could fulfill their demand. there come; the promise kick in. not just any other promise, but all of those empty promise each person pass on to their partner in the earlier segment of their love-life. those sweet, saccharin-coated word that make our day. most of the time, we can't really live on to our promise; we just enjoy listening to those phrase. our ignorant was so blindly that even deep down inside we know those promises were empty, but it was never enough for us to satisfy our demand for listening to it. to retain a functional poly-lifestyle; two must realize that an empty sweet promise, although happy to hear, can be destructive to an already-fragile fabric of lust. maintaining a neutral state of promise-throwing is an essential skill for both partners. not promising anything at all will make the journey dull; promising too much will harm other’s expectation when failed. Pouring a glass of wine on a clean sheet is never a good idea.
having a "proper" relationship is like future trading; you sacrifice today's opportunity for the speculation that it will earn more in the future. if the stock market teach anything to anyone, it's that an empty promise is always empty. sacrificing today's happiness for a more healthy and proper relationship in the future is always worthwhile. June 29 colorlessgreenideassleepfuriouslyno i'm not a nerd. (despite a Myers-Briggs test indicating that i'm an INTP) what i am doesn't really matter anyway; i'm not here to whine about a self-reflection of my imaginary twin, i'm here to add some garbage to the-already-overload-information-universe.
a while ago, someone told me that there is no right or wrong within a relationship. although i pleaded no contest as my reply, i do believe that her argument contain some valid points. rightness or wrongness in this matter is not concrete, it very well be subjective. rightiousness from one point of view can be completely valid and logical-- yet possibly opposite from the others. whether or not certain statement is right isn't quite a logical question in a relationship-universe. under certain circumstances, while logically knowing within his/her own ideology that the argument is flawed, one could be more than willing to logicalize that almost-foolish statement for the sake of one's lover's happiness. now, that's what i call illogically correct.
illogically correctness occurs more often during the initial phrase of a relationship; things seem to be smooth and compromisible. but then again, human isn't stable. we all are agressive, unpredictable, and creative to some extent. this properties of human nature drive us insane. illogical idea seems logical for the sake of mutual agreement. this very little bit of sacrifice seems to be almost-certainly-bearable at first, but an accommulatation of many little things can lead up to a huge problem.
to top the problem off; instability of human nature often create a "slack off" situation in the relaionship. oftenly, when the couple felt secure about their relationship, they seems to be slacking off, letting their images down, and forgetting what is the purpose of having a relationship in the first place (what is it anyway??).
illogically correctness, combined with (too much) sense of security in the relationship are often the cause (and the solution) to all couple's problem. i'm neither suggesting one to avoid compromisation nor encouraging a strong confrontation. i'm just merely pointing out that fact that there is no such thing as a stable relationship. every relationship is fragile. it will break if you hold it too tight, but it will be lost if you hold it too loose. remain stable, to yourself, and your partner. always assume that uncertainty is the only certainty in this world. relationship is not easy (but not too hard). can i do it? ask me again in five years.
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65. TELL ME A RANDOM FACT ABOUT YOURSELF: 68. EVER ATTEND A THEME PARTY?: 69. WHAT IS YOUR FAVOURITE SEASON?: 70. LAST TIME YOU LAUGHED AT SOMETHING STUPID? 71. WHAT TIME DID YOU WAKE UP THIS MORNING? 72. BEST THING ABOUT WINTER?: 73. LAST TIME A COP GAVE YOU A TICKET?: 75. NAME OF YOUR FIRST PET?: 76. DO YOU THINK PIRATES ARE COOL OR OVERRATED?: 77. WHAT ARE YOU DOING THIS WEEKEND? 78. BIRTHDATE 79. WHAT DO YOU WANT TO BE: 85. ARE YOU ON A LAPTOP?: 87. ARE YOU SMILING?: 89. DO YOU MISS SOMEONE RIGHT NOW? 90. IF YOU COULD GO ANYWHERE IN THE WORLD WHERE WOULD IT BE? 92. ARE YOU IN HIGH SCHOOL? 93. DO YOU HAVE A CRUSH?: 94. WHAT IS/ARE YOUR FAVOURITE NAME(S)? 95. WHAT COLOUR IS YOUR BATHING SUIT?: 96. DOES YOUR SCHOOL START IN AUGUST?: 97. DID YOU GO ON VACATION LAST MONTH?: 98. HAVE YOU EVER BEEN ON A CRUISE?: 99. DO YOU HAVE A SISTER? 100. ARE YOU UPSTAIRS? 101. IS IT NIGHT? 102. HAVE YOU EVER BEEN IN THE HOSPITAL? 103. DO YOU WISH YOU COULD SEE ANYONE PARTICULAR RIGHT NOW? 104. WHAT JEWELLERY ARE YOU WEARING? 105. WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO AFTER THIS SURVEY?
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